Note that the lecture is about women, not men and women, although it is hard not to mention the other gender in this situation. Paul is concerting on the neglect of women.
Paul Washer on feminism and women's distorted understanding of submission to men. This lecture shatters the notion that the Bible requires women to be inferior in relationships.
However, we are different from each other so that we each have different roles in a relationship that is one.
“Jeśli nie udało Ci sie być dobrą żoną, to nie uda Ci się byc dobra matką.”
“Mężczyzna ma doprowadzić dzieci do królestwa niebieskiego”
I, for example, read the Bible to my son several times a week and consider life situations. This year when he was with me in the mountains, at the seaside and in Masuria I showed him the work of God's creation, how much we do not appreciate it, how we want to get to know a famous singer, the creator of computer game videos, but no one wants to get to know the author of the sea, mountains, rivers, forests so desirable during vacations...
“”Czemu dzieci miałyby szanować ojca, skoro ich matka nie szanuje go”. “
This is also the case with wives' in-laws, who disrespect their sons by setting an example for their wives.
“Nawet jeśli żona jest bardzo pobożna, to nie została do tego stworzona.
Została stworzona aby wzrastać z nami pod naszym przewodnictwem, biorąc z nas przykład. Jeśli to odrzucimy, to odrzucimy coa bardzo waznego”
Here the text about the role of husbands immediately comes to mind:
http://detektywprawdy.pl/2015/10/03/uciekanie-mezczyzn-od-odpowiedzialnosci-za-zwiazek/
A man, must lead a family, live a godly life away from the world, If possible celebrate the Sabbath, read the Bible together. He cannot just teach outside, neglecting the family. A man is also to teach his wife.
Paul gives an example of decision making in the family. He says that he does not make decisions alone, but his most trusted advisor on decisions is his wife. I have to admit that, not yet knowing the Bible, I have consulted my wife on important matters.
I know that most wives have men who are not interested in biblical teaching, but in such a situation one should pray for wisdom for the husbands, for their conversion.
“Chcesz aby mąż był silny? szanuj go.
Women should adorn themselves but in: good works, piety, a submissive spirit.
There is nothing more attractive than a woman whose appearance is characterized by wisdom, discretion, nobility and simplicity, modesty, her pure beauty.
There was a time when people dressed for beauty, now they dress to inspire desire. There used to be distinction, now we have trash.
http://polska.newsweek.pl/prezydent-duda-pisze-list-gratulacyjny-do-ojca-rydzyka,artykuly,374602,1.html
Nie mogłam się powstrzymać – co za tytuły, jaka uniżoność “głowy państwa” dumnego kraju. 🙁 🙁 🙁
In my opinion, this is a deliberate action to cause conflicts in people's homes. I don't think that the president and his entourage are such idiots that they would release such a text by accident.
Today at work for 15 minutes I listened to the venomous hatred oozing out. They write such a bullshit, and people are so focused on fighting camps that soon they will be ready to cut each other's throats. Once a point for one camp, once for the other. Hence such actions to heat up the atmosphere. Divide and rule
“Dziel i rządź” stara zasada funkcjonująca od dawna także w naszym kraju,w sposób widoczny od 2005 roku – PiS i PO.
I think something much bigger and more serious is at stake now. I don't think it's for show anymore.
Looks like a fief tribute to me. 🙁
Jestem świeżo po obejrzeniu “Umawianie się na randki” – Paul Washer. W związku z tym mam pytanie/a do Ludzi w związkach: Czy macie “światowe” żony/ mężów? Czy obeszło się bez randkowania (z innymi osobami) i wcześniejszych związków? Jak i gdzie szukać, żeby się potem nie męczyć? Czy poznaliście się po nawróceniu? Czy Wszyscy macie śluby kościelne w obrządku KK? Pytanie do tych, którzy startowali z pozycji “Nawróconego”: Jak “zdobyliście” swoje wybranki będąc pozbawionymi ambicji do zdobywania tego świata… Tzn. wydaje mi się, że ciężko o Kobietę, która nie pragnie bezpieczeństwa (szczególnie tego materialnego)… Coraz lepszy samochód, większe mieszkanie itd.. Ciężko startować z pozycji “być” zamiast “mieć”. Albo np. Czy można się doskonalić fizycznie, ćwiczyć etc. czyli poprawiać swój wygląd? Nie mówię nawet o epatowaniu fizycznością, ale zwykłym doskonaleniu… Takim nie przysłaniającym duchowości. Wiem, że wielu mogło mieć szczęście np. na etapie szkolnym… Ale co zrobić kiedy minie ten czas, na studiach się nie imprezowało i ogólnie 30 lat minęło pod znakiem “edukacji zróżnicowanej”? Zresztą patrząc z dzisiejszej perspektywy uważam, że osoby uduchowione na etapie szkolnym (do matury), to kropla w morzu… Znałem może 2 takie, a sam zacząłem się zmieniać po studiach.
I am still attending school and I have about 1.5 years left, because I am in technical school.It is hard to preach the Gospel and it is very easy to get offended.The worst thing is if you are a social person, you can't stand it by yourself and you can get into the wrong company, although if such a person stands firm in Christ, he will discourage those friends or convert them.
Every suffering here for Jesus is a point for us in the next life. I, for example, regret that I did not meet the Lord earlier, maybe He would have saved me from my youthful interests.
Hah - lucky people!
I'm only in my second year of middle school so I'll wait.
A lot of these questions 🙂 Maybe it would be worthwhile to delve into what the Creator Himself says - the Scriptures, the NT for starters. Learning the truth and changing your whole lifestyle is a longer process. I think it is worth listening to some of Paul Washer's other lectures. Both my husband and I were Catholics, the process of our conversion is still ongoing and at different stages. Everything can be done and everything can be changed, but only through Christ!
Beautiful lecture I highly recommend 🙂
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pqs6qBB7_Uo
Yesterday's Google graphic. I think promoting evolution can be compared to taming star visitors.
Very wise lecture .Not only this one but all other lectures of Paul Washer .Wonderful .I recommend .I come back to them often .
Cóż … teraz kobiety lubią malować paznokcie na czarno . Tragedia .
"The male embryo becomes a human being after 40 days, the female embryo after 80. Girls are formed from damaged sperm or as a result of moist winds." (St. Thomas Aquinas)
"Women are designed primarily to satisfy the lusts of men." (John Chrysostom, 349-407, Gr.)
"Woman is an intermediate being who was not created in the image and likeness of God. It is the natural order of things that woman should serve man." (St. Augustine 354-430 - one of the most eminent fathers of the Church)
"The value of a woman lies in her reproductive abilities and her ability to be used for domestic work" (St. Thomas Aquinas, sage of the Church, 1225-1275)
"A woman should veil her face, for it was not made in the image of God." (Ambrose, sage of the Church, 339-397)
"When you see a woman, remember, she's the devil! She is a kind of hell!" (Pope Pius II, 1405-1464)
"Women by their very nature are destined for common pleasures." (Capocrates, founder of the monastery)
„Kobiety są błędem natury… z tym ich nadmiarem wilgoci i ich temperaturą ciała świadczącą o cielesnym i duchowym upośledzeniu… są rodzajem kalekiego, chybionego, nieudanego mężczyzny… Pełnym urzeczywistnieniem rodzaju ludzkiego jest mężczyzna.” (św. Tomasz z Akwinu)
"Girls who wear miniskirts will go to hell." (Wild, SJ, 20th century)
"Only a mourning robe befits a woman. As soon as she has crossed the threshold of mature age, she should veil her bitter countenance, lest she lose her eternal happiness." (Tertullian, Christian writer)
"In a woman the very consciousness of her existence should cause shame." (Clemens Alexandrinus, 215)
"Women are not allowed to write or receive letters in their own name" (Synod of Evira, 4th century A.D.)
"The entire female sex is weak and reckless. It is sanctified only through motherhood." (St. John Chrysostom, 349-407)
Immediately a man (what am I writing! a woman!) morale drops....
Disgusting in every way!
@Jakub Berlin
Wszystko to wynika z nadinterpretacji “uczonych w piśmie”. Na podstawie faktu, że to Ewa zerwała owoc, skosztowała i podsunęła go Adamowi wprowadzają stopniowanie winy/ grzechu. Natomiast nie zauważają, że niemal wszędzie jest mowa o zgładzeniu grzechu Adama np. “A przecież śmierć rozpanoszyła się od Adama do Mojżesza nawet nad tymi, którzy nie zgrzeszyli przestępstwem na wzór Adama”__List do Rzymian. Nie bez znaczenia jest również to, że kobiety jako słaba płeć (fizycznie) zostały zdominowane przez “mężczyzn”… Co ciekawe, w koranie sprawa wygląda nieco inaczej. – Nie ma mowy o tym, jakoby to Ewa nakłoniła swego męża do popełnienia grzechu. Ewa nie namawiała, ani nie doprowadziła Adama do popełnienia grzechu. Można wnioskować, że to Adam jest pierwszym odpowiedzialnym… Jednak na początku VII wieku pozycje obu płci były na tyle ugruntowane, że nie było już odwrotu… Mimo to jest to bardzo interesująca różnica pomiędzy Biblią i Koranem. Podział ról jest jak najbardziej wskazany, natomiast wykorzystywanie z pozycji siły i dominacji jest żałosne i nie przystoi słudze Pana. Co do podanych cytatów: „Dziewczęta noszące spódniczki mini, pójdą do piekła.” – na pewno one i ich rodzice, nie są na dobrej drodze… Reszta “mądrości” do kosza 🙂
Greetings
I don't understand this article?
what topics are discussed here?
I think someone just licked the subject superficially.
jesli wierzymy w Chrystusa – jestesmy bezpieczni gdziekolwiek. niestety podejmujemy wybory ze strachu – o byt materialny, przyszlosc. gdyby to nie bylo przeszkoda wiele I wielu nie mialoby dzieci, nie byloby w zwiazkach. miliony kobiet tkwia w zwiazkach ktore sa toksyczne (pomimo ze udzielone w kosciele katolickim) maz ubliza zonie, poniza ja wyzywa I bije lub psychicznie maltretuje, ogranicza finance (jesli je w ogole ma).
And a woman has to stay in such a relationship? How long can you forgive. And does everyone have to have children? If they haven't found the right partner (a Christian), do they have to throw themselves away and let anyone impregnate them just to please their parents and their friends?
Can't anyone answer this sensibly?
Children can be obedient and submissive to their parents because they are not mature enough to make responsible decisions for themselves. That is why parents have to make sure that they do not hurt themselves with unwise decisions until they are mature. NO ADULT person in a NORMAL relationship can be subordinate to another! Be it a woman or a man. An adult woman has the same right to decide for herself and be responsible for herself as a man. Following this line of thinking, women should be forbidden to go to school! Why should they study if they will never work anyway and should not think for themselves! Let there be cooking and cleaning schools for girls. They don't need reading either. Their husbands can read to them as they see fit. The right to vote should be taken away from them, since they can't decide for themselves and every married man should have his vote doubled for him and his wife.
Children can be obedient and submissive to their parents because they are not mature enough to make responsible decisions for themselves. That is why parents have to make sure that they do not hurt themselves with unwise decisions until they are mature. NO ADULT person in a NORMAL relationship can be subordinate to another! Be it a woman or a man. An adult woman has the same right to decide for herself and be responsible for herself as a man. Following this line of thinking, women should be forbidden to go to school! Why should they study if they will never work anyway and should not think for themselves! Let there be cooking and cleaning schools for girls. They don't need reading either. Their husbands can read to them as they see fit. The right to vote should be taken away from them, since they can't decide for themselves and every married man should have his vote doubled for him and his wife.