Note this text is not generally about relationships between men and women, but about the sources of women's aggression towards their partners, husbands.
While writing about aggressive women I realized after an email from the reader mentioned above how big this problem is. It turned out that only within 12 hours from the publication of yesterday's text about women, many women have a similar problem on our forum-christians.pl
To the first email of a woman writing to me, I wrote back like this:
"I think the cause of the conflict lies in your mother's or your father's relationship to you as a child. Maybe you witnessed violence or your mother rebelled against your father.
This may have arisen in connection with your professional career. It is very likely that you are demonized, but not possessed. "
Here is the content of her second email:
„Dziękuje bardzo za szybka odpowiedz. Ma Pan dużo racji odnośnie dzieciństwa, matki i babci, które są typami kobiet dominujących, nie doceniajacych mężczyzn i delikatnie mówiąc ozieblych. Ja z kolei zgadzam się z biblijnym poglądem na role kobiety i mężczyzny w związku. Zajmuje się domem i 2 dzieci, chce być jak najlepsza żona i matka. Karierę i sukcesy zawodowe zostawiam mężowi;) Moje relacje z matka są b.zle; wychowana w duchu socjalizmu zawsze bardziej niż mną interesowała się swoją praca, nie akceptuje mnie ani mojego męża, ale już do tego przywyklam. Jestem szczęśliwa z moim mężem, który jest b. Inteligentnym, dobrym, zaradnym i pracowitym jak mało kto facetem. Bardzo Go kocham i chce być uległa żona- nawet jeśli się z nim nie zgadzam zawsze On stawia na swoim. Imponuje mi jako mężczyzna. Moje dzieci kocham nad życie, tu mogłabym pisać godzinami;) Problemem jest ta moja wewnętrzna złość, wybuchy gniewu, krzyku- potem płacze, proszę Boga o wybaczenie, o pomoc…Często zastanawiam się nad zdemonizowaniem i mnie to przeraża ale nie widzę innej opcji, bo nie mam powodów do aż takiego gniewu w stosunku do najukochanszych osób. Jestem przerażona, nie wiem jak dać sobie z tym radę.;((( Pierwszy raz komuś o tym mowię- może modlitwa innych ludzi w mojej intencji pomoże…W przeszłości bardzo dużo grzeszylam i wstydzę się swojego postępowania. Byłam młoda, matka nigdy nie była blisko mnie, czułam się samotna…Dużo alkoholu, muzyki rock/ metal, partnerów…No i się doigralam, low świetle tego co wiem dziś zdemonizowanie czy kara boża są logiczna konsekwencja mojego postępowania;( Dziś jednak jestem zupełnie inna osoba- dzięki mojemu mężowi. Modlę się codziennie, kocham Boga i Chrystusa i mam nadzieje na ich miłosierdzie. Oczywiście zgadzam się na publikacje maila i jeszcze raz proszę o modlitwę za mnie, może wspólnymi siłami coś zdzialamy;) Jak sama mogę sobie poradzić ze zdemonizowaniem tzn. jak prosić Boga o pomoc???? Bardzo proszę o modlitwę za mnie, żebym była dobra żona i matka…Rozpisalam się mocno…Dziękuje za odpowiedz, niech Bóg ma Pana w swojej opiece, pozdrawiam. „
Let's note one thing: as you can see a Christian woman can be demonized which is a result of the past.
Satan wanted to keep this problem hidden. Besides, the word "occult" translates to "(Latin. occulo - hide, keep secret; occultus - hidden, concealed, secret) "
Almost from childhood, a child is being prepared to have traits useful in destroying the family in the future. At the elementary school stage, and even earlier, children are given computer games, EGO is glorified, independent women are shown, the cult of Mary, etc.
So it is almost impossible to protect yourself from that. In elementary school, alcohol, drugs, and quick sex come into play.
Someone on our forum wrote about a case where several female high school students bet that they would get pregnant with one and the same classmate. They succeeded just like Lot's daughters.
It is often the case that a woman who is aggressive towards her husband is subconsciously envious of his financial position and wisdom, and unable to give anything of herself, attacks her benefactor. Such women are devoid of passion, they are insensitive. They are generally unhappy apart from their husbands.
Interestingly, as a friend of ours wrote today on forum-christians.pl, it is mothers-in-law who encourage aggression towards their sons. I know this from my own skin, because my mother both with her contemptuous attitude towards me and sometimes with her suggestions directed to my wife such as "can't you raise a man?" etc. has some share in my wife's attitudes. My mother is an independent woman as is my mother-in-law.
Self-assured women say: men today are weak people. No, it is some women who are through aggression and competition with men that are ruthless. She is not writing about our heroine here. She fortunately stopped to look in the mirror, to define the problem. I myself am sensitive, but if I had to define myself by some fictional character from literature or film, I think it would probably be Michał Wołodyjowski, a brave romantic. Am I weak because I am sensitive? How many people decide to write the truth as I do? There are only a handful of such people. I am not writing this to glorify myself, but to show that a sensitive man can have a fighting spirit.
An email reader also wrote what is important and what many pastors are talking about in the US:
"I'm terrified, I don't know how to deal with this;((( "
No church in Poland educates on this issue. She is a Christian. It is stronger than her, which means it is clearly a demonic influence. Her prayers do not work.
Jeśli nie ukrzyżujemy własnego JA, starego grzesznego, to nie ma mowy o nownarodzeniu. Bardzo łatwo poznać nownoarodzoną osobę po owocach Ducha, a są nimi: “Owocem zaś ducha jest: miłość, radość, pokój, cierpliwość, uprzejmość, dobroć, wierność, łagodność, opanowanie. Przeciw takim /cnotom/ nie ma Prawa.” Galacjan.
Someone who has started believing again and is violent is a born again or a candidate for the new birth.
The following example perfectly illustrates the discrepancy between professed faith and the fruit of the Spirit:
“Kobieta prowadząca samochód została zatrzymana przez policyjną grupę pościgową składającą się z kilku radiowozów. Funkcjonariusze wybiegli z pojazdów i otoczyli ją, mierząc do niej z broni. Kobieta była wstrząśnięta. Co takiego zrobiłam? – Bez sygnalizowania przecinała pani pasy ruchu oraz wykonywała nieprzyzwoite gesty pod adresem innych kierowców i obrzucała ich pani wulgarnymi wyzwiskami – powiedział jeden z policjantów. – I dlatego mierzycie do mnie z broni? – zapytała. – Cóż, widzieliśmy na szybie naklejkę informującą o tym, że jest pani chrześcijanką, więc uznaliśmy, że pani samochód musi być kradziony.” (Lekcje biblijne 1/2010, str.5, Wydawnictwo “Znaki Czasu”)
This text I write the second time because by "accident" the blog was damaged I had to ask the hosting company for a backup from Saturday. So I lost the original text and it was a bit better. Generally, I personally find ad hoc writing better. Henryk Kubik puts great care into his texts, and I often have a thought and write it sometimes at work between classes
I am absolutely certain that Satan and his horde of thugs that are demons are not comfortable with what he writes.
Alfred Palla zanim skończył książkę „Niewidzialna wojna” miał spalone mieszkanie a wraz nim część książki. Nie wierzę w takie przypadki….
Demons care about hiding the truth. For this reason witchcraft is practiced. A woman who is independent in her relationship and rebellious is a victim of witchcraft. This witchcraft is influenced by TV, newspapers, not biblical company.
If they care about covering, then God does just the opposite and it is written:
Mt.
"So do not be afraid of them! For there is nothing hidden that shall not be revealed, nor anything secret that shall not be known. 27 What I tell you in the dark, repeat in the light; and what you hear with the ear, proclaim on the housetops! "
I think that's what God is revealing to us: women demonized by the witchcraft of Satan's system.
I am convinced that thanks to this email from a woman asking for help in getting rid of her aggression towards her beloved husband, what was covered has been uncovered.
Wives be good to your husbands.
I am aware that relationships are different, but if even an alcoholic or atheist husband sees your aggression, he will not believe in your Christianity. On the other hand, paying attention to your husband's addictions or vices will not get rid of your aggression or other vices.
All our impurities are the old life that needs to be crucified
It is impossible to meet Jesus in life and not leave the old life.
In reference to the previous conclusion you wrote Admin, that men are sometimes more sensitive than women. So why then do they seek out haughty and aggressive women? Then they let themselves be pushed around by them. Apropos speaking aloud about men's problems I am very much in favour. It also follows that most men are weak because they don't talk about it. It's true that women are mentally stronger, because they don't get drunk when there are problems, they know how to deal with them better. And men are afraid to stand up against stereotypes. They are not able to find an effective way of dealing with their problems, one that does not endanger themselves or their family.
They usually complain how awful women are, because they do not know how to deal with themselves and with them. A man of strong character works on himself and does not yield to the pressure of the environment or women.
I agree that women can be mean and calculating, just as men can be that way. But this is not what I am talking about, because these are generalizations and most often it is the case that neither a woman nor a man is either completely mean or completely good. It is not even worth talking about it, just make it clear.
So, going back to the previous one, women need to do everything they can to make their men feel valued. They have to feel their own value in order to help build it for their man who cannot find it in himself. That is why women have to be stronger than men and that is what they are.
In a world ruled by Satan, it is unfortunately the other way around. Instead of the man being stronger, the woman has to be that way.
I hope you Admin were not distracted by what I wrote. I wish you further exploration of the topic.
Claiming that women are more powerful is as much of an understatement as saying that men are smart and women are stupid.
It is Satan's system that makes it hard for men to be men. There is dissonance drowned in alcohol. He feels misunderstood.
Milka admittedly you have not been active on the forum lately, but you must have read the prayer thread, where women do not write about their men's alcohol at all, they know perfectly well about their aggression. Cyril understood what I wrote, you did not. You didn't understand because from what I remember you don't read the Bible. How can a woman testify about her faith through aggression? You do not understand this heroine of the email.
Until 100 years ago, there was a pure division of roles and a healthy ground for man and woman to realize themselves.
This is how it is, and it started with small concessions, probably from rich men possessed by various passions, because usually bored rich men look for various attractions. And then the surprise when there are so many divorces because a man can no longer stand another man next to him, i.e. a feminist who has taken on the role of head of the family, as well as a woman can no longer stand a effeminate man, who nota bene she brought to such a state herself, but subconsciously feels some lack and is looking for the next victim.
Hi. It is worth writing about the huge number of psychiatrists and psychologists who preach doomed to failure attempts to solve problems without God. It always ends that way because it has to. So many seek help from them, even those who barely have enough money to live on, and they usually deliberately charge horrendous rates even from the poor and wallow in luxuries living in the delusion of happiness just like their many clients after their visits. Greetings; only in God is hope and happiness.
Witam. Mam teraz 19 lat. Gdy miałam 13 lat poszłam do gimnazjum. Nie mieszkam w małym mieście, ale te gimnazjum jak i wiele innych w Polsce jest dziwnych. Jest zawsze to samo. W każdym takim gimnazjum, gnębienie, przemoc i używki. W podstawówkach i liceach tak nie ma. Ja w gimnazjum byłam sobą. Wychowałam się w dobrym domu, jestem kulturalna, miła i mam dużo empatii. Rówieśnikom w gimnazjum to przeszkadzało. Czy to przypadek, że obcy ludzie w nowej szkole, wszyscy się ciebie czepiają i gnębią? Poszłam do placówki otwartej, gdzie jest gimnazjum i liceum ale dla 30 osób łącznie. To placówka dla ludzi z problemami rodzinnymi i szkolnymi. Każdy uczeń ma psychologa, jest grupa psychoterapeutyczna. Byłam tam 2 lata. Psycholog i grupa terapeutyczna mi nie pomogła. Wręcz dostałam nerwicy i depresji. Co znamienne, nie mogłam wierzyć w Boga, przeklinałam go. Raz się bałam śmierci i bolało mne, że życie jest takie krótkie. Myślałam, że śmierć to koniec. Potem gdy depresja się nasiliła, nie widziałam sensu życia, nic mnie nie cieszyło. Bolało mnie istnienie, czułam życie mocne po życiu tylko coś powodowało we mnie, że nie chce żyć, iż nawet po śmierci nie zaznam spokoju i będę mieć świadomość. To dziwne i jeszcze właśnie miałam lęki. Bałam się, że wszędzie zasłabnę. Dalej chodziłam do tej placówki, do tej szkoły i psychologa. Na nerwice i lęki dostałam psychotropy od psychiatry. Gdy skończyłam tam pobyt, byłam tam 2 lata a nerwicy i depresji pod koniec pobytu tam. Ciągnęło to się 2 lata, z lekami byłam uważna, odstawiałam co chwile i łącznie mało je zażyłam. Depresja nie skończyła się, miałam koszmary senne. Ten sam sen, iż mroczna siła zwala mnie z łóżka. Chciałam coś zrobić i przyszła do mnie wiara, nadzieja. Wszystko minęło. Ja ciesze się z życia, nie mam koszmarów, mniej lęków. W końcu mam sens życia. 2 lata męczyłam się z nerwicą i depresją a wcześniej psycholog a wystarczyła do wszystkiego wiara, miłość i przebaczenie. Psycholog wałkuje na sesjach problemy ale nie daje nadziei, nie mówi o Bogu i nie ma terminu ”nowo narodzenie” Psycholog dał mi tylko depresje.
Here is my article on the subject:
http://cyryl.blox.pl/2014/10/Agresja-kobiet-skad-sie-wziela-w-naszym.html
Milka you write:
“Dlatego kobiety muszą być silniejsze od mężczyzn i takie rzeczywiście są.
W świecie rządząnym przez szatana niestety tak jest ze wszytsko na odwrót. Zamiast mężczyzna być silniejszy, to kobieta taką musi być.”
And in this way Satan will finish you off. God has so constructed man and woman that it is the woman in a world of sin who is submissive, weaker to her husband:
“(16) Do kobiety zaś rzekł: Pomnożę dolegliwości brzemienności twojej, w bólach będziesz rodziła dzieci, mimo to ku mężowi twemu pociągać cię będą pragnienia twoje, on zaś będzie panował nad tobą.” Ks. Rodz. 3
God says that the woman for sinning is to be submissive and weaker to the man from now on. This is logical, the earth has been cursed, meaning the conditions on it are more unstable. That is, less favorable to the woman.
Women have to be more sensitive to have a baby. Just as a computer is more sensitive than a drill. Sister Milka, on the other hand, says that if the drill is not quite efficient, then start drilling with the computer.
Testosterone, the male hormone, makes a person act confident and composed under stress. MMA fighters, boxers take it to the power to act confidently and decisively in a fight. This hormone is produced in large quantities by men. Thanks to it, any activity outside dem in a changing environment is better performed by a man.
O czym ty piszesz siostro?? O tym co głosili socjaliści: “kobiety na traktory i do fabryk”.
Mr. Cyril, you took an example of MMA out of your ass, because our Polish fighter Joanna Jedrzejczyk and not only she would put together more than one guy in her surroundings. They trained with guys, because in Poland too few women still train due to such stupid talk as yours and there was no way to create separate male and female groups. Similarly, for example, the world of programmers belonged to women before computers hit the homes of masses as game consoles and it was the men who did not buy computers for girls because they as game consoles are not suitable for them and we have the end we have.
Po drugie primo skoro na świecie jest o wiele więcej przestępstw popełnianych przez mężczyzn to kto sobie mniej psychicznie radzi? Dlaczego kobieta zostaje nie raz sama z dziećmi, gdy mężczyzn często przerasta taki ogrom i ucieka z domu, albo traci mieszkanie przy hazardzie. Jakoś dają radę, choć tyle osób jest w domu a ona nie raz sama musi ich wyżywić, ubrać, zaprowadzić do szkoły, kupić książki, pójść do lekarza…
Third primo, who do men run to when they have problems? To colleagues? Don't be naive, a meeting over a beer will end and problems won't even begin to solve and you can lie here, but you know very well how it is, only it's a shame to admit it, although personally I see no shame.
Fourthly, if you are really Polish, I advise you to improve your knowledge of what women have done, discovered or stopped major disasters throughout the years of Polish existence. I don't mean only what was in the history at school, because it's just a lot of rubbish and a lot of omissions and not even only Polish women, from all over the world.
So if you want to hide behind a writing just to have a basis for your own convenient reasoning, you should also first learn that the writing you are referring to has been modified many times and has virtually little to do with the original content.
You can also talk about factories and tractors, but everyone knows that you have always been best suited for this, so shovel in hand and look for brains in the ground, which fell off when talking bulbous philosophies
Dear atheist. i would ask for a minimum of culture. It doesn't hurt, and it will help in a substantive discussion.
He who looks back is not fit for the kingdom of God, for those who are in Christ Jesus there is no condemnation, everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ of God is born of God, how, in the light of the above words, does the accusing of believers in Jesus of demonizing or denying their new birth, not constitute an attempt to invalidate the Scriptures which do not give some intermediate possibility. The influence of childhood on the behavior of believers is also an unnecessary exaggeration of something over which God gives the victory because He has redeemed us from all unrighteousness as well as from our own poor conduct handed down from our parents. We are not debtors to the flesh to fulfill its lusts.
I think that the real reason why believers fall is because of their ignorance of the gospel and the apostles' teachings, and thus their increased susceptibility to all sorts of human science with psychology at the forefront